Monday, July 30, 2007

Post-Divorce: Period of Adjustment and Change

How divorce affects you individually depends on the type of divorce – who was at the receiving end. In short, the nature of divorce decides your changed situation – whether you were the petitioner or the respondent. Social psychologists argue that the effects of divorce are subjective reliant solely on individual perception. If you consider the divorce to be a bad act – then you see the changed new post-divorce situation as stressful. Your feelings of negativity rub off on your children. Thus, in such cases, post-divorce is a sorry situation. However, the situation changes drastically if you are the petitioner. You want the divorce and thus getting the divorce is a positive act for you. In this case, the effects of divorce are viewed as liberating and joyous. S View the rest of this article


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